Pros:

• Can sleep in
• House is quiet
• No messes to clean up
• Can go out at night and not worry about childcare
• Can go to work and not worry about childcare
• Can have whiskey for supper if I like
• If I decide to eat food for supper, there are no little hands trying to grab it from my mouth
• No timeouts
• No tantrums in public places
• No diapers to change
• No tedious bath time routine
• No family visits to deal with
• No social worker to deal with

Cons:

• No foster toddler
• Broken heart